Forgive the Dream

I'm interested in what helps us "forgive the dream" (Hafiz, trs by Daniel Ladinsky) of dual reality--what helps us see our true eternal nature. At this time of creating a blog, the major influences I see in my own life are (not necessarily in order of importance): satsang in the vague tradition of Ramana Maharshi; cats; Nonviolent Communication; and cloth--all speak languages of the heart.